When we are in love the only thing on our mind is the person we fell for. Love can sometimes be blinding and this means we are more prone to making choices that can have serious negative consequences in the future.
Imagine being married to a guy who thinks you are not worthy of wonderful things, does not like to be seen with you and thinks of you as nothing more than his wife or thinks you don’t have the qualities he wants in his girl. Isn’t it like the worst dream ever? So We’ve Listed Down Some Qualities And If Your Man Has Most Of Them Then Reconsider Your Choices And Don’t Marry Him!
1. MORE FOCUSED ON HIS WORK THAN YOU
Soon after marriage, there is a steep rise in responsibilities and if he isn’t giving time to you right now you already know what’s going to happen after you marry him. So it’s better if he balances both but if he doesn’t let him be with his work rather than you.
2. HE DOESN’T RESPECT YOU AND ABUSES YOU
Do you need another reason to break the relationship and not marry a man like him? A man who can’t respect and abuses his woman is not even worth calling a man! Just break up and leave him! Among all the qualities this is the one that you should never ignore!
3. IS NARROW-MINDED
The idea of spending your whole life with a guy who is not open-minded sounds like a nightmare. That’s something that’s surely going to make you regret your decision. You don’t want to be with someone for the rest of your life who restraints you from doing all the normal things just because of his fear of things going wrong or his mistrust on you.
4. MAKES EXCUSES
If he’s making excuses all the time that can only mean that something else is more important to him than you. It’s all about priorities and obviously, you are not his priority. You don’t want to spend your entire life with someone who can’t make you feel important in his life.
Relationships are all about trust and believing in each other. If he takes that away by breaking the code of taking confidence in each other than he needs to be replaced. If not the lies, then the liar needs to be confronted.
6. DOESN’T LET GO OF THE FIGHTS
A little argument and fights are necessary for a relationship but if he just doesn’t let it end you need to think about being with him. But if he never agrees to settle on a decision and is not willing to let you keep your opinion, he is the problem and you need to move away from him.
7. BREAKS HIS PROMISES
You can forgive someone for forgetting some important days and even breaking a promise if it’s done once in a blue moon. But what if he breaks his promises often? If your man does that it’s time to leave him because he’s just making a fool of you. Find a keeper instead of being with a promise breaker.
8. DOESN’T HAVE MOMENTS OF EPIPHANY
A man who constantly thinks that everything he does is utterly right and his decisions can never be wrong needs to have a reality check. If he never experiences any moments of epiphany and never doubts anything he does, his behavior can be harmful to you as well.
9. HATES ANIMALS
How on earth can someone even hate animals? If you man hates animals without any valid reason and always asks you to choose between your pet and him, just choose your pet! At least they’re loyal and loves you and obviously don’t ask you to make choices.
10. TOO CLINGY
Everyone needs their personal space and if doesn’t give you that just leave him. You’re not dating a kid and surely won’t like if someone is dependent on you 24*7. When men cling to us for more than usual, it either means that they have insecurity issues or they don’t trust you with your actions. Being clingy is just not normal.
11. CHEATS ON YOU
Well, forgiveness doesn’t always work. If he has cheated on you once chance is if they do it once they are going to do it again. So don’t even give a second thought about being with this man or marry him.
If he the kind of guy who throws people off after a minor fights or quarrel, he is not the right guy to be with. If he behaves immaturely and can’t handle things like an adult you need to reconsider your decision to marry him.