Texting is a great way to express your feelings. It’s quick, no pressure and versatile enough to accommodate any type of message.
You feel like casually saying “Hi!”? Text away.
Feeling somewhat romantic? How about some hugs and kisses?
However accommodating texting might be, women have the tendency to get carried away when talking to the opposite sex. We either write too much or too little, spend an uncomfortable amount of time figuring out what to say, and usually get mad when we don’t receive the expected reply.
Fortunately, men are somewhat predictable. That is why we’ve compiled 3 great tips for how to write text messages to guys and get them interested in what you’re saying. Responses guaranteed.
#1. Don’t Be Boring
Don’t be afraid to be funny. Guys (and girls) get bored quickly and like to flirt and have fun. So, instead of a boring “Hi. How’s it going?”, start a chat by inserting a cute meme with a funny caption. That will show him that you’re creative, interesting and that you have a great sense of humor.
#2. Don’t Ask Him Direct Questions
Don’t give him the opportunity to refuse your invitation. If you ask him directly to come and see you or go out with you, he may just send you an excuse and choose to stay at home and play computer games.
If you want to see him, just text something like “We’re having fun, you should come!”. Don’t put pressure on him or give him time to think about whether he wants to see you or not. Yes, it’s sneaky and it could be considered baiting, but it works.
#3. Define Your Boundaries
Flirt with him but still defend your standards. If he wants a few hours of your time, let him know that you are not that kind of girl, but you could go on a date with him. He will appreciate your character and respect you even more. If he doesn’t, he was not worth your time.