If you’re interested in astrology, then you know how interesting (and revealing) it can be to read about who you might score a date with, or connect with on a friendship level, according to your sign. But what about when it comes to the zodiac sign you should marry? That can require a much deeper look into horoscope compatibility for marriage, including the traits from other signs that match up best with your own.
Of course, it can be slightly discouraging to do a deep dive into your sign, only to find out you and your partner don’t mix on an astrological level. Or that you and a potential love interest might not see eye-to-eye. But that obviously doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed, or that something long-term couldn’t work out.
It’s possible to have a successful relationship with just about anyone you choose, regardless of their sign, since you have free will, Rebecca M. Farrar, M.A., an astrologer, tells Bustle. But it never hurts to know more about your sign’s traits and values, as a way of gaining perspective. “Astrology is a great tool for self-knowledge,” she says, “and can be helpful for understanding you or your partner in [a] relationship.”
It’s also fun to give your signs a once over when pairing up with a new partner, or when chatting about compatibility with a long-term partner. But Farrar points out that astrology and birth charts are complex things. While it’d be nice if it were this simple, it’s not accurate to say “Virgos should marry Capricorns, and that’s final.” It also depends on what, exactly, you’re looking for in a mate. Make sense? Then read on for a breakdown of different matches, and have fun with what it reveals about who you might end up with.
ARIES – THE CONTROLLING QUEEN
Aries women are all about control and power. They are the ones that make the rules because they are the leaders of their pack. The Aries woman is fully aware of the power she has, and she uses it with utmost discretion and care. She never does anything without thinking of the consequences beforehand. And when she shines, the whole world watches her in awe! That’s the power of this controlling queen!
TAURUS – THE STRONG ONE
These women have a strength of character and willpower. They are highly driven and headstrong. They are the ones that have the guts and courage to stand up for themselves and for the ones they love. However, behind their strong nature hides a heart of gold. Taurean women are caring and loving and always willing to help those in need. When a Taurus woman fights, the world stops, and when she loves, the world admires.
GEMINI – THE CREATIVE THINKER
Gemini women are the thinkers and the creators of the world. The Gemini’s bubbly personality makes her able to think outside of the box. Her imagination can literally take her everywhere because she is also a very capable woman that can easily turn her ideas into reality. She doesn’t want to dominate, not because she is weak, but because she uses carefully her strengths. When she speaks her mind, however, the world is shocked by the beauty of her thoughts.
CANCER – THE WALKING ENIGMA
Few can understand the Cancer woman as she is a walking enigma. She is fierce and passionate on one hand, while generous and caring on the other. She is a magic mess able to change her mood in a heartbeat. As a friend and lover, she is loyal to the grave because nothing is more important to her than loyalty. Only when they are faced with betrayal they show their wrath, so be careful to never betray your Cancer woman!
LEO – THE VISIONARY LEADER
Leo women are the world’s greatest visionaries and leaders. When it comes to reaching their goals, they don’t stop at anything. Their drive is always high, and it matches their outstanding performance. These women climb the ladder of success and are more than happy to take others with them. And when they fail, they fail with grace and dignity. The Leo woman is a perfect mix of humbleness and virtue that not many possess, and everyone admires.
VIRGO – THE VIRTUOUS WOMAN
Virgo women are full of virtues. They are the ones who when it comes to choosing the right thing over the easier option, they always go for the right thing. These women have angelic souls, and it is a real blessing to have a Virgo woman in your life. They are loving, kind, and helpful by nature. Even when they are hurt, they always manage to pull themselves together and fight for themselves. When their heart of gold bleeds, it bleeds for losing the people they love.
